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I can remember my first trip to a sex store. I was 19 years old and my flatmate who was eight years older than me dragged me in there after my wild Italian boyfriend of three years traded me in for a trashy little wench. The only good revenge was to enjoy life and live it large… first stop Pitt Street sex shop for the biggest vibrator I could find. I walked out with a pink jelly-like thing which to be honest didn’t really do much for me until I bought a few porn magazines to use with it.

A lot has changed since then. The sex toy industry has expanded along with internet porn and selfie-sites such as this. Toys can be purchased online making them more accessible without the embarrassment of entering and exiting at a street level store. With the release of ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ the sales of Ben Wa Balls went through the roof, so much so I'm am told Australia’s number one online sex shop had trouble meeting demand. As it has become more socially acceptance for the average housewife to keep a drawer of kinky bedroom toys more money has been poured into producing better sex toys.

So I asked a few girls about their favourite toys, and their toy experiences; Ms.K a 40 year old recently separated woman funnily enough shared the same favourite sex toy as myself. An “Ammunition for Love” bullet. Boasting to be the strongest single speed vibrator on the market; this little baby packs a punch. Both of us giggled as we discussed the first time we used this toy, as both of us came easily within a minute. This bullet only measures 8-10cm and is water resistant making it a fun solo or couples toy. Although be warned ladies, using a toy like this regularly on your clit can leave you having trouble reaching orgasm any other way. My rating: Fun factor 3/5; Orgasmic factor: 5/5

Not all of us women want a quick orgasmic buzz on our clit when going solo with sex toys. I remember when I separated with my husband. We had a small boxed collection of bedroom toys which I ever so kindly dumped on his new girlfriend’s doorstep; and so I needed to build a new single girl collection. My first purchase was the Doc Johnson Realistic 8” Cock. Oh my word! This toy has since been named ‘The Punisher’ as it is the bad boy of dildos. This to me is the closest you can get to the real deal, even down to the throbbing veins along the shaft. This isn’t a toy for a quick orgasm when you are really horny and need to knock one off because you are going out, it’s the ‘I’ve got an afternoon to myself and I want a fuck’ toy. The suction cup on the base of the cock means you can go hands free or stick it to the side of your shower. This is a serious single girl’s toy! Note: The visual of you taking this fat 8” silicone cock can be both an extreme turn on and also intimidating should you choose to share this intimate moment with a cam buddy. Fun Factor: 4/5; Orgasmic Factor 3/5

Ms.C a 36 year old Mother held a sex party this year and invited girlfriends from her church to come explore and purchase new items from the comfort of her home. She came away inspired with a new butterfly clit stimulator, a flogger, a crop for spankings and a new set of weighted Ben Waw balls. While she is yet to let loose on a hairy backside with her crop and flogger she is keen on her Ben Wa Balls. The good thing about Ben Wa balls for women is that because you hold them in with your pelvic muscles essentially its like doing your Kegal exercises while getting your rocks off (or balls off as it may be the case)! It is possible to leave Ben Wa balls in one's vagina all day, or use them while seated in a rocking chair for an effect that some find pleasurable. Fun Factor 4/5; Orgasmic Factor:5/5

Ms. S’s favourite is another in the new generation of sex toys, a glass ‘Icicle’. Any girl who has browsed the list of possible purchases in this collection of hand crafted glass toys will know the toughest thing about this gig is choosing which one to buy. The unique thing about these glass toys is that you are able to heat them up in warm water or chill them in the freezer making this a fun toy for couples. Fun rating: 4.5/5; Orgasm rating 3/5.

Of course all the above girls including myself are single and for the most part solo playing (except on a really good day). There are plenty of toys made especially for couples to enjoy together, such as my very own We-Vibe. I will explore couples and men’s toy’s next weekend.

Until then I’d love to hear below in the comments section what your favourite female sex toy is and why… how do you rate it out of 5? Is it possible to have a bad sex toy experience? I’ve had a bad drum stick experience… but let’s leave that for another blog.